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Why 99% I’m not gonna marry an Arab girl
Author: Alaa Abdelhaq18 Jan
I started to feel am getting old in age, life is getting boring everyday.
I may started to feel lonely and started to feel the need for a girl in my life.
I need some real descent relation in my life, that may be translated into marriage!!
I know am crazy but yeah marriage!!!
So whats next? start looking around for candidates!
reality hits here!!!
No candidates 
Why?
I’m an average Jordanian Muslim guy, my family too. we are neither
rich or poor, we are in the middle, and being in the middle is so hard, you wanna
move up and forward and you cant look down, and you cant step back at any cost! even if the cost was marriage itself.
Honestly I cant marry Jordanian girl, cause she and her family will swallow me like if I was a panadol pill.
Truth hurts I know!
but Why not a girl from here? I will tell you why:
1- One of her parents if not both, are greedy.
was asking some girl what is the “MAHIR” your family requires?
she said maybe 3000 JD plus the “JHAZ and shitty stuff” , I felt am talking to some merchant owner! or you can say a prostitute!! yes prostitute sorry!!
2- 90% are narrow and old fashioned minded.
3- Shallowness.
4- Brain washed.
5-Incapable of making decisions.
Girls are 2 types, either a puppet or a master of other puppets!!!
6- Not welcoming the idea of salary sharing.
7- Most of them don’t have a goal in life or dreams but to get marry and have children!
8-they say they ambitions, but when you ask her what is your dreams, she just shut-up.
9-They want to live like their mothers and grand-mothers, they are not thinking to break the cycle and search for different life.
10-they dunno the meaning of adventures.
11-they want to be equal with men, they study go to universities and work as men, secure good positions and some times they own businesses, but when it comes to marriage, they hate equality , how ironic.
Believe me I have millions of other reasons!!
I was so crazy to think of marriage.
I came back to my mind and I will never think of it again!
My post does not apply for all girls, am not stereo typing here!
but majority are 
I will appreciate sharing with me your thoughts.
22 Responses for "Why 99% I’m not gonna marry an Arab girl"
Im all with you dude, but believe me if you want a real girl not in her “face” and “body” you will find it in front of you…
i really disagree with you man … i believe that if you feel disappointed from a bad habit in your society i prefer to fight against it with the person who you “Love” rather that run away to a society that do not have this bad habit but they have many other.
believe me you will find around you the person who will fight with you against these old fashioned minded.
5alas Mashi …
Hahaha, ya zalameh !!!
Hajer w shouf keef el girls 3ashan t7es b 2eemet elli houn !!!
not all of them metel ma 3am te7ki ! w if u want to put a percentage its not above 10% !
my advice to u: change the way of ur thinkin, or simply HAJER
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Dude, trust me, someday you will find her and you will wish that you will spend the rest of your life with here, you just need to wait till it happened
Dude, trust me, someday you will find her and you will wish that you will spend the rest of your life with here, you just need to wait till it happened
and by the way, the footer of your website needs to update the year number!
haha, dude, your harsh.
u think Abu Yaseen???
thats the truth
Well , first of all let me say that my words are not for all gurls !!!
anyway , i support my dude alaa in what he wrote
what the hell the gurls in amman thinking ???
what they want ?
i am talking from the perspective of my experiences i faced
most the gurls in amman wants (tartoooooor)
they want to keep what they do and continue their life walking there and hanging out there and there , and talking to 100 guys and finally when u meet her she is the angel :O and u r not supposed to ask her what she do or did , u r simply a new man , but ur guilt is that u came to her from her family door not through words or unethical methods
whats wrong is happening !!!!!!!
there is no mortal way of dealing with life or with human beings , there is no honesty between the gurl and her family , u go and find the family , wooooow what a family , she have men (3ezweh) and loving family and they actually dont know what their daughter is doing (innocent angel) and her mother of she knew , she will be the cover for her (ya baby do what do u want im here for u)
espically cute or let me say beautiful gurls !!!!
making their bodies (which are gift from allah) like an amuzment parks !!!
all can play !!!!!!!!!!
u feel there is mental sickness !!!
im pretty , i have to have all guys looking at me and if the chance is there , we play alittle to kill the boring !!
if i continued to write , i will need an extra day for that
but i guess my point is made already
thank u all
OooooCh!!!!!!!!! whats up 3ala2
the funny things is, i do agree with you, but not all girls the same, maybe your idea of “Miss perfect” is not true, or ur looking at the same wrong places!!
Nisreeen, its been a long time!! why did u shut down ur blog??
sure not all girls r the same fe haik o haik
but believe me am not looking around for any!!!
what about u, r u available
hahahaaaa no not really available
I shut my blog coz some guys are unbelievably sick, from ppl you’d think they’re normal..
seeeee not all guys are good, in fact only 1% or less !!!
Salams Brothers & Sisters. I’m a muslim from Australia.
It sounds like Jordan is becoming much like Australia & the west. Religion has gone out the window. People doing what they want without fearing Allah(SWT). Indeed this is a sign of the last day, however the Ummah, (what ummah) needs to stand up and be proud of being muslims and socially enforce the rules of islam. It is suppossed to be cheap and easy to get married, Allah made it easy, Humans made it $$$&difficult. Marriage is supossed to be cheap and easy to prevent fornication, pre marital sex. I’m engaged to a lovely Jordanian Girl, but after reading the terrible things above and on other site about what’s happening with the club’s…. ostuffrualah… I’m not letting it affect my relationship but really guys/girls you need to shape up!!! Humans are humans, some people are muslim by name only, Saudi’s not much different, I lived there too. But Where are the MUMIN’s?????????
This statement is not addressed to any individual:
If your a muslim, shape up or ship out & call your self a dothine or kufar….
Being a muslim is special & means we are chosen by Allah (SWT).
I know u may not like reading this but bad luck!!!
Salams.
HOWWWW IRONIC,,, sometimes its better not to share all of our thoughts,, look what happened to you,, you are engaged to the most beautiful girl ever hehehe and you are happy and you guys are arranging for you wedding,, trust me alaa this is life,, you should thank god for finding your soul mate and btw i am not talking cuz shes my sister but i am talking based on what you tell me
wish you guys all the best
ahh man…u really had a bad experience there
for me and my fiancee,on our engagment!we sat everything up ( maher and mo2a55ar ) for “katbet elktab” and our parents just met on that day and toke the normal “formalities” process ( more like an act )
and btw,she is Jordanian so is her parents.
you cant generlaze like that. i didnt ask for mahir as i feel like the more u ask for it becomes like a price you put on your daughter. its supposed to be ramz. so lera dahab is what i asked for. so did a lot of my friends.
wedding expenses are there whther the girl is arab or from amreeka sheeka beeka. not all arab girls are shallow and brainwashed. i wont even start about ajaneb. but believe me if u marry ajnabeyeh you will regret it when ur kids grow up with a britney spears mentality
I agree to the most part with u, girls in west amman r like this. it is a sad reality
its true, all i can do is just smile and ignore them
, they are so stuck up in the past that they dont see whats around them and the millions of things thats possible, well thats just my point of view, i have to deal with this kind of things on a daily basis, i am the only one in my family who dont care anything about our culture and background -.-
thank you great job
Dear brothers and sisters:
Believe me it’s all the same. If you recon a given thing to be bad,then you are only talking about the negytive side of it,and if you recon a given thing to be good then you are only talking on the positive side of it .
This applies to arabs as well,more precisely people with third world mentality (they could be even blond-blue eyed swedish,and even a nigerian could have a 1st world mentality). The negative side of most people with third world mentality is so.. and so…, what about their positive sides? and what about the negative side of a girl with a 1st world mentality (what about the so called “emancipation” ? dating with men although she is married,etc..) . My wife was an Earth-dweller woman of 1st world mentality,next one will be an Earth-dweller woman of 3st world mentality,maybe moroccan,syrian,hungarian or russian.
hands to god Im all with you buddy but u know only arabic girls who can understand & support our craziness …:(
muslim culture is too complicated lol… hey if you find sombody that boost your shiet by all means enjoy it
life is too short to be getting all caugh up n rules n tradition… thank god everything is fading out n people are comming to a better understanding to what god really want from us … and then end is for us to be happy
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